Saturday, 7 September 2013

Why women cry

Why Women Cry...

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said,

"And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does

mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his

dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still

wondering why women cry.

Finally he met an old man who would surely know the answer.

And he asked him: "Old man, why do women cry so easily?"

Old man sad: "When woman was created, she had to be made special. Allah created

her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet

gentle enough to give comfort. She was given an inner strength to endure

childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. And a hardness that allows

her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family

through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

Allah gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all

circumstances, even when her child

has hurt her very badly. She was given strength to

carry her husband through his faults and she was fashioned from his rib to protect

his heart.

Allah gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his

wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering.

And lastly, Allah gave her a tear to shed. This is hers and only hers

exclusively to use whenever she needs it.

She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my son," said old man, "the beauty of a woman

is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she

combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because

that is the doorway to

her heart - the place where love resides."

Jazkallahu Khayran / Jazakallah / Thank you / Shukran ?

✰✰✰Jazkallahu Khayran OR Jazakallah OR Thankyou OR Shukran? What is the correct Islamic way?✰✰✰ 

Good manners dictate that you should reciprocate the one who does you a favour in kindness.

♛☪Meaning of various words used to reciprocate the one who does you a favour: 
❂THANK YOU = a polite expression of gratitude=Thanks = 10x= Shukriya= Shukran 
❂JazakAllahu Khair = MAy Allah reward you or grant you with good
Does THANKS give any DUA better or equal to JazakAllahu Khair ? NO !!!!

Reciprocating kindness means choosing that which will make the one who did you a favour feel happy, just as he made you feel happy. So you should strive to thank him in kind. 

Allaah says in Quran: “Is there any reward for good other than good?” [al-Rahmaan 55:60] 

"The one who does not give thanks to people does not give thanks to Allah (Subhanahu wa Tala)" - Reported by Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad.

If you are not able to reciprocate with a gift, or helping with some task, or offering some service, etc, then at least you can say du’aa’ for him, and this du’aa’ may be a means of bringing him happiness in this world and in the Hereafter. 

► One of the best forms of du’aa’ for the one who has done you a favour is that which is mentioned in the Sunnah: 
i) The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever has a favour done for him and says to the one who did it, ‘Jazak Allaahu khayran,’ has done enough to thank him.” 

[Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1958 & 2035; Abu Dawood (1672) and by al-Nasaa’i in al-Sunan al-Kubra (6/53); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.].

► This du’aa’ is also narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in a lengthy hadeeth in which it says:
ii) “You are the Ansaar, may Allaah reward you with good (jazaakum Allaahu khayran), for you are decent and patient.” [Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan (7277) and al-Haakim (4/79). He said: its isnaad is saheeh, and al-Dhahabi agreed with him. Shaykh al-Albaani said in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (3096): It is as they said]. 

► This phrase was often uttered by the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them).

iii) ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: If one of you knew what there is in his saying to his brother, ‘Jazaak Allaahu khayran’, you would say it a great deal to one another [Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah (5/322)]. 

iv) Usayd ibn al-Hudayr (may Allaah be pleased with him) said to ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her): May Allaah reward you with good (O ‘Aa’ishah), for by Allaah, you never have any problem but Allaah grants you a way out and makes it a blessing for the Muslims. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (336) and Muslim (367). 

v) Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I came to my father when he was wounded and they praised him and said: May Allaah reward you with good, and he said: I have hope and fear – meaning hope for that which is with Allaah of reward and mercy, and fear of that which is with Him of punishment [Saheeh Muslim 1823]. 

♛☪ Jazakallah or Jazakallah Khair? Understanding Grammar Behind The word Jazakallah
Jazaak comes from the root word jazaa which according to the popular Arabic-English dictionary, Al-Mawrid, has two meanings that are completely opposite to eachother!

Thus jazaa can either mean reward OR punishment. 
So :"JazakAllah" can may either mean "may Allah reward you" or punish you, while
"JazakAllah Khair" means ... "may Allah reward you with the Best / Good", 

So the correct way is to say Jazakallah khair & not just jazakAllah. Though someone might say that the intention by saying jazakallah is the same like jazakallahu khayran, if its so, then why not use the complete wordings as used by prophet(pbuh) and the sahabas? which is jazakallahu khayran !

♛☪ Jazak Allahu Khair depending on situation:
Masculine: Jazak Allahu Khair
Feminine: Jazaki Allahu Khair
Plural: Jazakum Allahu Khair

♛☪ Substitute for Jazakallah khair is BarakAllah Feek ( "May the blessings of Allah be upon you.") 

♛☪ How to Reply to Those who says Jazakallahu khair to you: 
1) Wa Antum fa Jazakumullahu khayran meaning "And you too, May Allah reward to with Khayr".
✰Evidence from Sunnah: Usayd ibn Hadayr (sahabi) says: I said: 
O Messenger of Allah جزاك الله خيرا [Jazaakallhu Khayran] 
The Prophet(pbuh) said: وَأَنْتُمْ فَجَزَاكُمُ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا [Wa Antum Fa Jazakumullahu khayran] And you too, May Allah reward to with Khayr].
[Albaani has said that the Hadeeh is Saheeh in al-Saheeha 3096, al-Ta'leeqaatul hisaan al Saheeh ibn Hibbaan 6231]

2) Wa iyyakum (وإياكم)” meaning “And goodness to you also”
✰This is the one the common message used by people. Muslims can use this phrase sometimes, and abandon it sometimes, but they must not cling to it as if it is an established Sunnah of the Messenger since there is no evidence related to it. 
Source: note.php?note_id=162420833804190

▸ ▹ ► ✰Conclusion✰: It’s a kind suggestion to all members that don’t just be a follower of prophet(pbuh) name sake but rather by following his sunnah. The correct sunnah is not to say thanks or shukran rather its to say jazakallahu khair or barakAllah feek. and should be replied with Wa Antum fa Jazakumullahu khayran. Lets revive this sunnah in our lives Inshallah & motivate others to do the same

Jazakallahu khair for reading this message.



Friday, 6 September 2013


assalammualaikum w.b.t

selamat pagi semua.  

hari ni kelas pengajaran kemahiran bahasa melayu pkbm tp lect x masuk2 lagi. sebok agaknya. kali ni post guna tab. ni first time aerin update blog guna ni. bukan tak tahu guna tpi leceh siket la guna ni.

catatan kali ini hanya menggunakan ibu jari dan bukan seperti selalu guna jari jemari manis ni. hihi

bulan september seperti biasa bulan yg sangat busy stiap tahun.

skrg kelas kurikulum sejarah. dah 2 kelas da tp entri ni still ada kat tab. x post2. tu tandanya cuba nak selitkan masa dengan berblog. 

niat baru nak aktif sekurang2nya 2 hari. entah sampai bila . hehe.

x dpt nak ber"centre"

oklah, byeeeeeeeeee.